Ok, guys and gals

There are those who have used the word that rhymes with witch to describe me at times. ( I personally believe every woman has an inner bitch and sometimes you just HAVE to let her out..)  The former county commissioner even went so far as to say my initials CB stood for compassionate bitch..  Works for me.

I have long had some issues with this because one really does not want to be know as a B, it should not be the way to define or describe a woman, we can all BE one, it really depends on the situation. Sometimes it can be caused by men or maybe even another woman. I have always thought of myself as a very strong woman and that is not a bad thing. Family, friends and colleagues all like that side of me when they want someone to be the "bad" guy- they just tend to forget it is not a switch that you can turn on or off with a flick. I personally feel that very rarely have I let my inner B run. Usually I am just being a Strong woman. That is a trait respected in a man but it is a very tough line for a woman to walk. 

Today however my daughter emailed me this wonderful poem. I do not know it's author but it really describes strong women to a T. Please read and pass it on. 

BITCHOLOGY   

 
 When I stand up for myself and my beliefs,
 they call me a bitch.
 
 When I stand up for those I love,
 they call me a bitch.
 
 When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts
 or do things my own way,
 they call me a bitch.
 
 Being a bitch means I won't
 compromise what's in my heart.
 It means I live my life MY way.
 It means I won't allow anyone to step on me.
 
 When I refuse to tolerate injustice and
 speak against it, I am defined as a
 bitch.

 The same thing happens when I take time for
 myself instead of being everyone's maid, or when I act a little selfish.

 It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won't becomeanyone else's idea of what they think I 'should' be...
 
 I am outspoken, opinionated and determined. I want what I want and there is nothing wrong with that!
 So try to stomp on me, just try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce  of beauty I hold within me.
 You won't succeed.

 And if that makes me a bitch ,so be it.

 I embrace the title and am proud to bear it.

Beautiful * Intelligent * Talented * Charming * Hell of a Woman           BITCH 

It should be on a Shirt and I would wear it proudly....

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